When I look at the people I adore, I see all the good stuff -- love, companionship, supporting each other and encouraging each other.When I look around my home, I see creativity in our family projects and artwork. I see glimpses of dear friends and family in photos and memories of our good times together in the things we've collected -- and even in the chips and scratches and smudges. (There are lots of chips, scratches, and smudges!)When I look at myself, I see years gone by -- lines on my face from laughter and being out in the sun. I see perseverance and experience and hopefulness. I try not to see any regrets.